The boys in our ward know Jarom will let them borrow his Mustang for date nights. Above is Clayn and his cute little date. Jarom's loaned it out for a few boys now. I'll admit, I was a little worried the first time he let it go, but the boys always seem to respect the holy powers of a "muscle car" and return it in better shape than when they took it.One boy in particular, Michael, had a true love for the Mustang. He took it out several times, and each time he would come get it in time to detail and wash it before his date. (A bonus for us!) His mom told us he would stand in the garage and just stare at it. Michael would generously leave us his vehicle to use while he had our car.
After many, MANY tears and fights in this house, we have decided to let Halle take jazz/clogging from a once a week studio, and then her ballet teacher is letting her come just once a week right now to keep some of her strength up. I was really hoping this would help her find the love of dancing again, but so far it doesn't seem to be working. Because her body isn't consistently working out anymore, she's coming home tired and sore from ballet. Also, the other girls in her class are moving on without her. They all got fitted for toe shoes, while she didn't. And while I understand completely why, I'm still sad about it a little bit. I just wish we could find a less intense school, with good technique. But that seems impossible.
I don't know if this is just a hard little hump Halle needs to get over and will say in the future, "Thanks for pushing me through that Mom," or if she really just hates ballet and will say in the future, " I hated ballet! Why were you so mean to me?". I see so much talent in her and would hate for her to not develop it and regret it in the future. But at the same time, I don't see her becoming a professional dancer, so if she doesn't want to dance, why am I making her? What to do as a parent, what. to. do?
We have a great time loving on her!And just for kicks and giggles, let's end with some kid funnies. We had Chinese for dinner a while back. Carter's fortune cookie said, "Prepare for the unexpected." He asked what that meant and Jarom said, "It means to be sure you always have clean underwear on." Carter's response was, "I'm DOOMED!" LOL! Funny, funny boy.
The girls have been fun doing their nails lately. They learned a new technique where you paint your nail, let it dry, then dip it in rubbing alcohol, press a piece of newspaper to it, and voila, you have news print letters on your fingernails. Anyway, they were doing this and Kate got really excited about it, went running to Carter and said, "Carter! All you have to do is put your finger in that kind of coffee!" (Meaning alcohol.)
Oh, how we don't realize the connections they make, alcohol and coffee, LOL.
ReplyDeleteYay! An update! Jarom is probably the coolest guy in your ward for letting the boys borrow his 'Stang. That is awesome!! And obviously I'm not a parent, but as far as it goes with Halle - she still wants to dance, even if it's not ballet. So as long as she's loving what she's doing it sounds like a good thing. I have a friend who teaches clogging over that direction - is her teacher's name Mitzi?
ReplyDeleteThat little frowny face. LOL! Too cute!!!
ReplyDeleteLoved this update. :)
I used to see that "twinkie" truck on campus all the time, to only find out it was michaels! too funny! :]
ReplyDeletejarom is awesome! i love that story. you guys have been busy! and josie has the cutest little frown. (:
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